I didn't like how they looked on me, so I've only used them at home. I've been storing them folded on a shelf. I think they're unisex! I don't see any noticeable scratches or stains, but since they've been handled by someone, please refrain from purchasing if you are overly concerned about condition. I will wrap them in cushioning material for shipping. Lens Color: Gray Frame Color: Black Lens Features: Non-prescription Frame Shape: Boston