Thank you for viewing. I used this at a friend's wedding. Including trying it on, I've worn it a few times. It's a muted pink color, a calm shade. The size is 10x10 centimeters, including the black lace part. I think it would look good with up-styles or short hair. How about it for weddings or parties? I will take it out of the box, package it, and ship it. Please consider this as a used item. If you are nervous or have concerns about used items, please refrain from purchasing. I do not have any pets, and I do not smoke.