I bought this new about 7 years ago, and my child wore it. It was easy to dress them in it, with its gentle colors and soft fabric. Since it was mainly for going out, it wasn't worn very often. It can be used for both boys and girls. Overall, there is some slight pilling on the surface, but no noticeable stains or fraying. The name is written on it. It will be blacked out. There is a little fraying on the tag. I think it can still be used. Please consider it. I will fold it up small for shipping. Please forgive any creases from shipping.