This is a unisex L size, so I think it's equivalent to a men's M to L. There are no noticeable scratches or stains, but it has been worn repeatedly, so please refrain from purchasing if you are sensitive to used items. I'm selling it at a low price because of this. It's a rare smoky pink color, and I think it can be worn cutely by anyone regardless of gender. #TheVeryHungryCaterpillar #graniph #preschoolteacher