I purchased this here and used it only once at my wedding. I thought it might be a bit large, but when I actually used it, it balanced well with the dress and looked cute and noticeable even in wide shots. I'm of average build, but I didn't have any problems like it being too big or the accessory slipping due to being heavy! It has a U-shaped wire, so the angle was somewhat adjustable! This will be simply packaged with waterproof measures and bubble wrap, so please refrain from purchasing if you would like a box. I will consider price reductions depending on the price, so please comment.