I have graduated. There are no noticeable scratches or stains, and it is in beautiful condition. I think you can still use it. *It's a brighter beige than in the photos. How about dressing up and attending your older child's graduation or entrance ceremony? Of course, it's fine for everyday wear, and I think it can be worn by anyone, regardless of gender ＼(^o^)／ There is a zipper & hook, but you can also adjust the elastic on the inside ♡ #♡Setsugetsuka♡Children's Clothes