I haven't worn it much. It's a beautiful item, but there may be some signs of wear depending on the lighting. I've worn it about 5-7 times. The color is suitable for anyone! The strings are curled up, so I will wash them before shipping for those who are concerned. Of course, breastfeeding mothers can also wear it. Can be worn before and after pregnancy. I also have other maternity items for sale, so please take a look if you'd like.