There are no major scratches or stains. There are some areas, such as seams, that may fray if pulled strongly. I think it's within a range that doesn't interfere with daily use. I used it until my baby started rolling over. I was able to put my baby to sleep with peace of mind, so it was a product I was really glad I bought ^_^ I hardly used the pillow. The item is washable, except for the inner cushion. It can be folded, but doing so frequently might feel a little stressful. The cushion is very full and requires some force. I used to fold it up and take it with me when I went back to my hometown!