Thank you for viewing. This item will be shipped via anonymous delivery, so you can trade without revealing each other's names and addresses, which I think is safe. My daughter wore it only once last New Year's. I'm not a professional appraiser, but there are no stains or spots. I think it's quite clean. How about using it for commemorative photos at home during events like New Year's, the Doll Festival, or the Shichi-Go-San festival? *Please note that the item will be folded for shipping, so please be aware of any creases upon arrival.