I wore this at my wedding reception. The flower part has no noticeable tears or marks. I bought it as earrings and converted them to clip-on earrings myself (I cut off the part that goes in the ear and attached it to clip-on earring findings with glue). It felt natural when I wore them, and they didn't come off during the reception. I'm including the glue I used, just in case, so you can make any necessary repairs. Please feel free to negotiate the price!