"People Who Blame Everything on Others" Ruriko Kohinata Price: ¥1210 (tax included) ◆ The psychological mechanisms of people with "other-blaming" thinking that trouble you and how to deal with them. ◆ An industrial counselor who has supported the hearts of over 6500 people explains how to interact with people who have "other-blaming" thinking. Other-blaming refers to the thinking of blaming others or the environment for the cause of a problem or the responsibility for a problem. From a psychological perspective, "other-blaming thinking can act as a defense mechanism to avoid self-responsibility and protect oneself from failure and problems. However, this thought pattern is said to hinder self-growth and is likely to have a negative impact on human relationships and social life." According to the author, "The most troublesome thing about other-blaming is that people with a habit of other-blaming rarely realize it themselves." Along with the psychological mechanisms that cause such "other-blaming," the book thoroughly explains the characteristics and coping methods of people with a habit of other-blaming, and how those around them should interact with and deal with people with other-blaming thinking to avoid being caught up in it. The antonym of other-blaming is "self-blaming." It means taking "oneself" as the cause of all results. Being too strong in that can also lead to mental illness. According to the author, "The most mentally stable and ideal state is to be moderately self-blaming and moderately other-blaming." To aim for that ideal, the book also explains what the person themselves should do and how those around them should deal with the situation. [Table of Contents] "Other-blaming thinking" is something everyone has. The difference is how strong that tendency is. The ideal thinking is "moderately self-blaming, moderately other-blaming." The book thoroughly explains the mechanisms by which people become other-blaming thinkers and how to get along with such people. Table of Contents Chapter 1: Patterns of "Other-blaming Thinking" Seen from Consultation Cases Chapter 2: What exactly is happening in the minds of people with the "other-blaming habit"? Chapter 3: The reason why people with the "other-blaming habit" are increasing Chapter 4: The disadvantages and effects of "other-blaming thinking" Chapter 5: What to do if you think you might be an "other-blaming person" Chapter 6: How to get along with "people with the other-blaming habit" #RurikoKohinata #Ruriko_Kohinata #Book #Society/General"